Prince Harry and Meghan Markle are finally married - they have always seemed like a lovely couple, and I wish them all the best on their future life.
I have a few issues with Meghan's dress. Everyone was glowing over it's simplicity and how she's making her mark as someone willing to follow her her own sense of style. I can get behind all that in theory, but the results didn't add up for me.
The dress is Givenchy, best known for its clean lines and classic shapes. Audrey Hepburn was Givenchy's muse for years and inspired the label's chic aesthetic.
Markle's dress tried to emulate the simple, modern styling of Givenchy's days of old, but the execution didn't quite work.
For one, it looks like it doesn't fit through the sleeves and the front, so instead of looking straight and column-esque, it looks rumpled and crunched.
Because the dress was such a bright white, because it had no detail to break it up, and because the veil was so overwhelming, the look got blown out it in the sunlight and in many instances she looked like a big white block.
The dress needed more elements to make an impact. A sheer sleeve. An open neckline. A waist detail. Something.
Meghan is beautiful, and putting her in one big swath of white does nothing to suit her.
I appreciate that Meghan was trying to branch out of tradition, and there certainly was less pressure on her gown than there was on Kate's, but there is simply no comparison as to which dress photographed better.
Kate's lace sleeves gave the gown a breath of fresh air, the shape of the skirt was soft and elegant, and the ivory color was easier on the eye. Again, Meghan's dress simply looks like a heavy white rectangle.
Everyone expected Meghan to wear Ralph and Russo, the designer who created the dress for her engagement photos. The sheer top of the engagement dress shows her figure and keeps the look light even though she is completely covered, which would have been a far more flattering look than the one she picked.
If she was determined to go a more simplistic route, she could have taken a note from Amal Clooney, who showed up to the wedding in a stunning Stella McCartney. With the open neckline, defined waist, and subtle pleating, a very basic dress is given just enough oomph to make an impact. Meghan's dress had no dimension to speak of.
Or even better, Meghan could have taken a look back at Mette-Marit Tjessem's wedding dress. She married into Norwegian royalty in 2001; the dress met all the social requirements with the modest neckline and sleeves, but the fitted bodice and flowing skirt were breezy and romantic.
At the end of the day, Meghan's dress isn't awful. We aren't going to look back on it and say "Ew, I can't believe she wore that," but I don't think we're going to look back on it and say it was one of the best princess dresses of all time, either. It definitely had some problems that needed resolved.
It was fine. It could have been better.
What do you think?
The end of award season is a great time to reflect on the fashion trends of the year, and for brides it's an opportunity to find gowns that reflect the red carpet styles they love.
Here's a look at 17 red carpet trends that have been reflected on the bridal market!
Prices have been included where available.
Romantic Champagne Tulle
City of Stars
Off-the- Shoulder Lace
Simple and Structured
Tea Length Ballerina
Sleek with Slits
Photo Credits: BHLDN, David’s Bridal, The Knot, and Vogue.
If you want the quick-and-dirty version, watch this video!
If you need more details, keep on reading. You don’t want to be the person who gets a ring that looks nice initially but ends up being a bad decision.
If you’re the buyer:
1. Is the stone conflict free?
The simple definition of a conflict diamond (also called blood diamonds, red diamonds, or hot diamonds, depending on the context,) are diamonds that are sold to finance civil wars in undeveloped countries. To complicate the diamond industry further, the diamond mining industry is filled with unethical practices that often lead to violence.
Looking for diamonds that were mined according to strict labor and environmental standards is important. A jeweler should be able to show you a specific diamond’s System of Warranties to guarantee its origin.
In addition, ask your jeweler if they are KPCS certified and make sure they provide you with a certification. KPCS is the Kimberley Process Certification Scheme, which, while not a perfect system, is designed to eliminate the flow of conflict diamonds. Some jewelers go above and beyond the requirements of KPCS, which is great!
There’s also the option of buying an antique diamond or using an heirloom stone. Many antique diamonds pre-date diamond-related violence, and passing down a stone through the generations is always a more ethical practice than buying a new stone.
The Scoop on Conflict-Free Diamonds
Beyond Conflict Free Diamond Buying Guide
2. What is the resale value?
This might be a weird thing to think about when you’re purchasing a ring, but what you pay for a ring is not what the true value will be forever and always.
The GIA (Gemological Institute of America) has a lot of different values and gradings of diamonds that determine diamond value. Remember the 4 Cs: Color, Clarity, Cut, and Carat.
Color doesn’t just mean is it white or yellow or blue or pink. The GIA color scale ranges from colorless to near colorless to faint to light color, and that’s just for white diamonds. On the D-Z scale, you’ll want to look for something between a D-J, D being completely colorless and the most expensive to J, being near colorless and average priced. The most common diamonds are around an H.
Clarity refers to how clean and pure the diamond is. A Flawless diamond is going to be very expensive and very rare, but the closer you can get to flawless, the better. The scale goes Flawless, Internally Flawless, Very Very Slightly Included, Very Slightly Included, Slightly Included, and so on. Most diamonds on the market are going to be SI1 or SI2, which means you can see inclusions in the diamonds under 10x magnification. That’s just fine for resale, but obviously the more flawless, the better.
Cut has to do with the shape of the diamond and how well it’s cut. Diamond shape is entirely up to personal taste, but it’s good to keep in mind that you can see inclusions more easily in diamonds with an open cut (like emerald) opposed to a diamond with an intricate cut, (round, princess, etc.) so clarity and cut are intertwined in that way. The other part of cut has to do with the actual diamond facets and how they interact with the light. Not all that important to know the ins and outs, but the artistry and skill of the person working with the diamond is connected to that. If a diamond is more expensive, it’s likely cut well.
Carat is weight and SIZE. Pretty easy to understand, the bigger the diamond, the more expensive. I really would never recommend going above 1 carat, and it is much more important in terms of resale to get a smaller diamond with better color and clarity.
And all that is just for the rock! Resale value is determined by setting as well. A pear or marquise shaped diamond need to either be set in a bezel setting or they need have caps on the pointed tips to keep them from breaking off. If they don’t have that, it’s a cheap setting and not worth it. Same goes for prong settings that look either short/nubby or long/claw-like – they’re cheaply made and won’t hold the stone as well.
In addition, the metal that is used in the setting determines the value. Precious metals in the gold, silver and platinum family are going to demand a higher resale price due to their rarity and value on the market.
Gemology Institute of America
GIA 4Cs Education
Zales Guide to Jewelry Making
3. How hard is it to maintain?
The current popular ring styles are actually the worst things ever. They’re really glittery and all, but more things can catch on them, all those little side stones will need re-tipped over time (more on that later,) they’re more likely to get dirty, you knock into it and there are more little diamonds that could fall out. I’ll address the ring receivers on how to maintain the ring well, but it’s YOUR job as the buyer to get something that won’t make it too hard for them.
4. Can it be re-sized?
All those rings with all the side stones all the way around? You can't re-size it. All those rings with intricate scrollwork all the way through it? You can't re-size it. All those rings in cheaper metals like tungsten? You can't re-size it. And before you say "I'll never need to re-size it," you may not, but you probably will. Your hands change as you age, and your ring isn't likely to fit the same 20 years down the line. DO NOT be the person who never, ever takes your ring off – you WILL have to get it cut off your finger if you don’t want to risk permanent damage to your hand. The ability to re-size is crucial.
Neither of these rings can be re-sized.
5. Does it come as a set with a matching band?
Jewelers aren't always going to be willing to volunteer the fact that an engagement ring doesn't have a matching band, because then you'll have to PAY for a custom made wedding band, which gives them more money. You have to ASK. I know as the buyer you're only focused on the one ring, but there is a second one you need to buy down the line, and it would be super helpful if a band that matched the ring perfectly was available. Unless you just want to shell out more than $800 for a custom wedding band, in which case, knock yourself out.
If you're the receiver:
1. Don’t make the shopping experience too overwhelming.
It’s REALLY easy to get overwhelmed on Pinterest. On one hand, it’s great that we have the internet to inspire us and to easily search rings to buy, but eventually your buyer is going to have to narrow it down. Providing under 10 options at different price points is beneficial.
2. Keep maintenance in mind.
I want you to all hold up your right hands and solemnly swear:
I will not wear my ring 24/7.
Just don’t. I don't care if you think it symbolizes that your love never dies or something ridiculous like that. No. Do not wear your ring when washing your hands. Not put lotion on when you're wearing your ring. Do not wear your ring when you're doing messy things like cooking or gardening or painting or anything. If you want your ring to last, only wear it when you're leaving the house and take it off when you get home. Register for a ring dish if that helps.
Think I'm being ridiculous? I'm not. Water = scratches and erosion. Lotion = gunk collecting underneath the stone setting, which, if you have a LOT of stone settings, is bad news. Wearing your ring all the time means the prongs on your stone settings wear faster, which means having to get your prongs re-tipped, which again, is bad news.
Never heard of re-tipping? Jewelers don’t talk about it much. As your prongs wear down, stones can come loose and fall out, so they need to be built back up.
Here is a popular ring style from Kay:
20 outer diamonds
12 inner diamonds
1 center diamond
20 band diamonds, 10 each side.
53 diamonds x 4 prongs per diamond = 212 tips.
Re-tipping cost varies by the jeweler, but many charge by the prong. You don’t want to have to get 212 prongs re-tipped.
Need further evidence? My mom has had her wedding ring for more than 30 years, and she has never needed re-tipping. You know why? She takes her ring off the second she gets home and puts it in a ring dish. If she's going somewhere where she knows she's going to be doing a lot of work with her hands, she wears a plain gold band so she doesn't mess her good ring up. Take notes.
3. Solder your bands together.
A lot of people don’t want to do this because they like to wear their band on its own instead of as a set all the time. If you think you’ll want to do this, I highly recommend getting a plain band to wear solo. If you don’t solder your bands, they rub together and cause irreparable wear. It will be better in the long haul if you solder right away.
There’s a lot more to know about rings depending on what type of ring you get, but obviously the most important thing is that you and your partner love it.
…and that you take it off when you get home. I seriously cannot stress that enough.
While traditional fashion designers release their designs during the year they will be produced and sold, bridal fashion works a year in advance. Spring 2017 Bridal Fashion Week gave us a LOT to look forward to, and I've picked out some of my favorites!
(Okay, more than some. I have a lot of favorites.)
Layers and Lace
Modest and Bold
Tony Ward for Kleinfeld
Illusion and Texture
The Fussy Dynamic
Classic and Dramatic
The Edgy Artistic
Classic with a Twist
Shiny and Sheer
Oscar De La Renta
Soft and Subtle
Structure and Texture
The Romantic and The Bold
Ines di Santo
Photos from instyle.com and brides.com.
I was first introduced to the wonders of Alexis Russell jewelry this past May when my lovely friend Briana received an Alexis Russell engagement ring. (A preview of Briana's engagement photos can be found here.)
I have always loved unique, non-traditional bridal jewelry, and I FELL IN LOVE with everything on Alexis Russell's website.
Alexis first started her jewelry career in 2005 after She uses recycled metals and conflict free (often raw and uncut) diamonds and gemstones, and her designs are a healthy mix of organic/boho and strikingly modern.
I wish I could use a different word than "obsessed" because it's kind of a cliche word, but truly...I'm obsessed with her engagement rings. My hypothetical future husband seriously needs to take note. While Alexis has a definite distinct style, her bridal jewelry still comes in a wide variety of aesthetics, from deep colored raw diamonds like Briana's to more traditional clear stones in unique shapes. Naturally, she makes remarkable, simple wedding bands to make a perfect pair.
For something even more non-traditional (or simply for everyday jewelry) Alexis carries small, raw diamond stacking rings. And men, she hasn't forgotten about you. Her hammered unisex rings are a perfect wedding band for the bride or groom.
Then there's the OTHER jewelry options. Her hand chains are perfect right-hand compliments to her wedding rings, and all her bracelets, earrings, and necklaces are remarkable.
It would be a serious oversight not to mention her "save the date" necklaces. You can customize them to say anything, and they make excellent, understated gifts for bridesmaids, MOBs and MOGs, and anyone within a bridal party.
Perhaps the BEST news for my fellow Illinoisans is that Alexis Russell designs are now being carried in Winnetka, IL!
I'll say this: Alexis Russell is not for everyone. Her designs are unexpected and different, and not everyone likes that.
But to that, I'll say THIS: everyone should like it.
"Pay attention. See how genius creates a legend."
- Shakespeare in Love
(all photos courtesy of www.alexisrussell.com)
Three of my friends got married in three weeks this summer (in what I fondly call my Summer Wedding Trilogy) and ALL THREE of them got their dresses at David's Bridal. I did a full review of my David's Bridal Shopping experience back in August, and I've been rather fond of some of their dresses this season.
BHLDN has been one of my favorite stores in the Bridal market for ages, and they have a TON of great stuff this season. For more, visit BHLDN's website or a BHLDN salon near you!
Finding the perfect makeup look to compliment your gown, venue, and season can be a difficult task. That said, whatever look you choose can bring out the best in you and compliment your inner beauty!
These are my favorite wedding makeup looks - I hope they inspire you!!
Whether or not you've been bridal gown shopping or are well-versed in salon lingo, you know about David's Bridal. All you have to do is turn on the television and you are permeated with the "You'll Love David's Bridal" jingle. You know about the 99 dollar gown sale. If you were asked to name five bridal gown retailers, David's would probably be your number one.
I recently had the opportunity to visit two David's Bridal locations as the Maid of Honor in my best friend's wedding. Between the two trips, I developed a few pointers and tips for you if you ever plan on shopping at a David's Bridal near you!
1. David's caters to the traditional bride.
This is changing a bit as more non-traditional designers are seeking the mass market that David's offers (White by Vera Wang is a more non-traditional label, and in the fall David's will be introducing a new label by Zac Posen which looks like a promising non-traditional option) but for the most part, the David's Bridal Bride is the Princess Bride. Because of this, options without poofy skirts, options in colors other than white, and options without a lot of sparkle are somewhat limited and your consultant might have difficulty picking gowns in your style if you're not a traditional gal. Be aware of this before going in, and make sure your consultant is clear on what you want.
2. Go in with specific pictures of what you want to try on.
David's has a LOT of gowns, all of which are on the floor for you to see. If you don't have an idea of what you're looking for, it can get very overwhelming very quickly. Luckily, David's has all of their gowns available to see on their website, style numbers and all. If you do your research and come to your appointment prepared with dress styles in tow, your consultant will thank you and your day will go a lot smoother.
3. Make your appointment for later in the day.
David's is BUSY. This is only natural - they sell a high volume of gowns at affordable prices and they have an abundance of locations. There are women trying on gowns, large groups getting bridesmaids or mother of the bride dresses, people having their fittings at any given moment, and the atmosphere of David's isn't particularly private (they have a limited number of "stages" which multiple customers share.) Like any retail store, things slow down after 3pm, so if you can, make your appointment in the afternoon/evening for a calm, intimate experience.
4. If you only want to try on bridal gowns, make that clear.
This would seem like an obvious point, but at the end of the day, David's is a retail environment and they want to sell you more. This does have a lot of advantages; with your bridal gown purchase they offer you a discount on bridesmaids, flower girl, and mother of the bride dresses, which is lovely and helpful. That said, they might try and roll appointments for those dresses into your gown appointment. Your gown appointment should really be all about you, and you might have to say so up front.
5. Wealthier area = nicer store.
We went to two David's locations, one in a lower-income area and another in a Chicago suburb. The experience at the suburban David's was far better. The store itself was cleaner, the dressing rooms were in a more private location, our consultant was seemingly more experienced, and we ended up leaving with a dress. Moral of the story: a better experience is worth the drive.
I used to dismiss David's Bridal as a low-quality media ploy, and I can say now that I was wrong. If you go in having done your research and if you have the right expectations, I'm sure you'll have a successful appointment!
For more tips on shopping for a wedding dress at ANY location, check out my video on Couture Commitments' channel.
*The opinions in the post do not reflect all David's Bridal locations. I have not been sponsored by David's Bridal in any way.
I'm that girl. The one who has been planning her wedding since she was ten.
It wasn't an intentional thing, really. My mom used to subscribe to Martha Stewart's magazine, and one time when I was about ten, I found one of her old Wedding issues and got hooked. It was the one with the big floral cake on the front...Spring 1997 I think.
Once my mom figured out that I liked the issue so much, she started buying them for me. Every season. I had close to fifteen before I realized I had a problem. Then it expanded to buying The Knot magazine, then Chicago Bride. I would even pick up those random wedding publications you can get at the hairdresser. Eventually a whole shelf of my bookshelf was wedding related.
I've since ripped out the pictures from the magazines and have sorted them and put them into binders to save shelf space. I'm not quite done yet... 20 odd magazines makes for a long and arduous process.
Now, in the age of technology, I don't have to resort simply to wedding magazines (though I do pick up the occasional Martha Stewart now and then.) Now there's Pinterest. PINTEREST, guys.
Don't even get me started on wedding TV shows. I don't have a lot of nice things to say about TLC, but between Say Yes to the Dress and Say Yes to the Dress Atlanta and Bridesmaids, Four Weddings, Randy to the Rescue, Something Borrowed Something New, and I Found the Gown, my Fridays are pretty well booked. Friday is Bride Day, after all.
And because I need MORE encouragement to be wedding obsessed, I'm in my twenties, which is the age for engagements. In the past two years ten of my friends have gotten engaged - this year alone I have two weddings to attend, and I will be the maid of honor in my best friend's wedding next year.
My best friend's wedding is really what inspired me to create this sub-set of Cornfield Couture. She is not the planning-her-wedding-since-she-was-ten type of girl, and since I am, I have been put to the task of being both her maid of honor AND her wedding planner.
Her engagement has been stressful and somewhat discouraging and also crazy exciting and happy and I think it's important to talk about those experiences with people.
It can be really easy in the midst of all of the stress of the planning of ONE DAY to lose sight of what a wedding celebration is for and what will lie ahead of you at the end of that day...a marriage. Marriage, really, is why I'm so obsessed with weddings in the first place. It's a few hours celebrating something that lasts a lifetime...what's not to love?
I'm Jordan, and this is Cornfield Couture Commitments.
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